Thursday, June 02, 2005
a fren came to mi n said tt her parents are about to file for a divorce. wad the fuck? she's definitely not my 1st fren whose parents are divorced.
the events tt happened around mi realli make mi doubt n be sceptical bout the existence of eternity in love. is it true tt love, which bonds a couple, disappears once they got married? or it disappears once they 'have' each other? things started off sweet and romantic for new couples. but look wad happens as they got married or were together for a few yrs? they started takin each other for granted and haulin critisism to one another. the spark of love, hot n burnin, tt once ignited a relationship, died down as yrs go. is this life?
wads marriage n long-term relationship? is it responsibility or purely love for each other? y do couples separate? wad bout the promises and committments they vowed to give each other? do they disappear n be forgotten too?
one thing tt my fren said which striked mi was "why force them to b together if they quarrel everyday n are unhappy wif each other?" tts exactly wads happpenin in many couples. there's no point in clingin on to each other if u know tt the outcome of it is not goin to turn out to be wad u dreamed of to be.
i dont believe in promises. no 1 can promise another anythin becos wad the future holds does not depend on us. everyone of us have absolutely no clues bout the future. so y say "i promise to love u forever"? this suddenly dawned on mi: forever is a darn lousy word. can u live forever? if u cant, how can u love a person forever then? of cos, i mus say there are stil couples who r as lovin as before. i realli pei fu these ppl. my parents are one of them =)
i hope i dun arouse any offends in any person reading these.
relinquished the memories we had before. i dun care bout the future. i care bout the past n the present. at least im thankful tt we are stil together, as one.
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